October 6, 2006
Dear
family and friends of WCPC:
Where
is the fall? I guess in Texas we bypass it altogether and move
directly into the winter. I’m sure the fall will come, but not
soon enough for me. Growing up all of my life on the east coast
I’m more accustomed to four seasons. I’m adjusting and don’t
mind missing out on winter snows, but a little fall in the air
would be nice right now.There are seasons to life. The preacher
in Ecclesiastes writes: “There is a time for everything, and a
season for every activity under heaven: a time to be born and a
time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to
kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to
build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and
a time to dance, A time to scatter stones and a time to gather
them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, a time to search
and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a
time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war
and a time for peace.” (Ecclesiastes 3: 1 – 8)
I’ve noticed as a pastor
that individuals go through different seasons in the living of
their life and faith. There are joyous seasons. Seasons of
celebration. But there are also other seasons all of us walk
through. Sometimes it’s a season of doubt. We find ourselves
questioning everything, particularly God’s love. “Why does God
allow such things to happen?” Sometimes it’s a season of
temptation. We are pulled in directions that we know aren’t
appropriate, but the pull at times is so strong. At other times
it’s a season of grieving. We grieve the lost of a loved one or
of an opportunity or of the past.
I would suggest all are
seasons of growth, spiritual growth.
First, we need to be honest about whatever it is we are going
through. Denial isn’t a great option. So, first,
admit the truth about where you are right now. God won’t be
surprised. God already knows where you are right now.
Second, be willing to share with
someone else. You may find
that what you’re going through isn’t all that unusual. Others
have gone through it too. Please know that Gene and I are
always available to you and the more I get to know so many of
you the more I’m aware of people who’ve gone through difficult
seasons. Many of them would be willing to share their
experience with you, if invited.
Third, realize that most seasons
pass. What’s important is that
while we’re walking through them we remember all we’re learned,
so we are deepened and so others can be blessed by our
experiences.
And fourth, God wants to use all
the seasons of our lives to mold and shape us into disciples,
followers of Jesus.
Whatever season you’ve
walking through right now will eventually end and another season
will begin. We may even live through some difficult seasons
more than once. When they come, or if they’ve arrived, don’t
give into despair. Open yourself up to what God is doing.
Sometimes it’s easy to forget, particularly in the heat and
humility of the summer (or in Texas in October), that cold
breezes will blow again.
See you on Sunday,
Your pastor,
David Jones